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Leadership — It Begins with Clearing the Mind
What is the greatest leadership challenge of all? It is Choice.
Consumers are overwhelmed by choices. Have you tried to buy a new computer lately? So many manufactures with several different makes and models to choose from. Then to top it all off, you must choose between Dual processors, how many gigs of ram, and so on.
Leadership is no different. It starts first with the choice of wanting to be a leader. Titles or positions do not make you a leader, it’s a personal choice. Once you make this decision, you must look at yourself. Look at your skills and abilities. This is both physical and emotional abilities too. Also, you need to look at the opportunities in your work place. There will be a number of directions you can begin to lead yourself and others if you look for them. You must determine what is your priorities and a course of action. Then you must ACT!
People come into my mentoring program and expect to be the expert. They are not in a leadership position nor do they hold a leadership title in their organizations. They know in their heart that they have more to give, but isn’t quite sure how to go about it. I tell them they had already taken the first step by looking for a mentor. Someone who will guide them to where they want to be.
It all begins with clearing the clutter in the mind. Once you are able to identify what it is the is holding you back, then you can proceed to creating an action plan and acting on it. This will have the greatest impact on the organization.
Above all other things in life, you have a choice. It’s what you do with your time that counts. Working with a mentor, someone who will show you what is needed to reach the success you are after, is a key component to Your success. NO one can become a leader on their own. You have to develop the skills and follow in the footsteps of people who have been there and done the work.
“How Do You Know What To Say When Mentoring People?”
Hello Professional Network Marketer,
Massive Action = Massive Results
When you are a mentor a coach to people, you will want to know what to say to people as you mentor them, this audio below is powerful and I wanted to share it with you.
You Can’t Pay Mr. Michael Dlouhy for a Coaching call, he does NOT need Your money so put Your credit card in the freezer. Michael want’s YOU to OWN Your Life, Yes, OWN Your Life. He changed my Life and I own my life today.
The 64 minute audio link in this post has the answer on HOW to BE the Mentor to Everyone, YES Everyone that Your Life touches…
This call was on Monday Memorial Day May 25th 2009.
After You Listen to this call get back with me and I will set up Your NO Cost to You Coaching call with Michael. Please get back with me as soon as You listen to the 64 minute audio above.
When You invest “Time” in Yourself Michael will invest his Time to do a Coaching call with You…You can NOT be a Mentor without “Being” Mentored.
Judith May
(904) 291-2676
A Network Marketers Successful Mind
Looking into the minds of some of the Most Successful Networkers you will find that every one of them had to work on themselves first. So we sit around and wonder why we are not having success…. hmmmm and we never give the thought of looking inside ourselves. See for you to earn more, you have to become more.. Makes sense to me…. So this is what I recommend you do if you find yourself stuck in the same place you were at a few months ago… Watch this video and let me help you work your way through this and onto Success. Please ask for the help and take that Action to move forward. I am here to help anytime.
If you want to learn how to stop the chatter in Your Mind and begin to visualize and focus on Success, then contact me anytime.
To Your Success,
Judith May
How to Visualize YOUR Success.
I wanted to share some basics on Visualization. I heard alot in this industry about visualization and how this can be an important part in one’s success.
We all desire to be successful however if we don’t believe we deserve success it will be hard to visualize what success would be like. So start by believing in YOU and the rest will make some sense.
I have been listening to Richard Brooke’s Mach II with your Hair on Fire CD and it is Incredible. Richard shares so much in how he reached the level that he is at today. Imagine hoping in your own private jet to get to work. WoW!! But then again his work is everywhere.
Here is what I have learned that I need to focus on in order to begin to master the art of visualization.
1) All Phrases are Positive
whatever you speak about has to be positive, no negitivity in at all.
2) All Phrases are Present Tense.
speak your vision in the present tense with positive words.
3) Phrases describing you are in the first person
speaking of your vision beginning with I or we
4) Clarity gives the vision POWER!
give the details of your vision.
5) Emotions, tones and energy provide clarity to your vision.
It only takes a moment to Motivate. Keep it Positive.
So get clear on your vision and put emotions and details with it. See it clearly enough to speak your vision into reality.
Hope this helps you to get started on Visualizing your dreams into reality. If you need more help, please feel free to contact me anytime.
Judith May
Being Uncomfortable and Overcoming It.
Are you Uncomfortable about things you do? I know I am. It is apart of life that we were taught as children. Some things we were told to do and we really didn’t want to. However we did them right? Yes. We all have had to do something we didn’t like to do as children.
I was at a business event this past weekend and saw alot of people doing things that I could clearly see they were not comfortable with. Stepping out of their comfort zone so to speak.
Making new friends is not always comfortable to some people, but we do it. If we do not make new friends or associates we simply lose out on education that they can provide for us. You have knowledge of things that I have not learned about and I have things YOU have not learned or heard about. I have learned to ask the questions to get the answers I was looking for. Again stepping out of my zone.
It was an experience to see when someone did step out or got up on stage to be recognized and didn’t really want to. However once they did and they smiled, they really felt alive! Self – Confidence was glowing in them. It was a step out of the comfort zone and into another area of their life. A feeling of accomplishment.
So what I learned and want to pass onto you is “Do what is Uncomfortable now so you can experience the Comfortable later” Focus on being where you want to be and doing what it takes to get there. That also means doing some uncomfortable things like, talking to people, advertising your business, making new friends, organizing a home meeting or starting a local breakfast club. All these things will have to be done in order for YOU to reach the level of success you DESERVE!!!! Yes you deserve success and you are important to people.
If you need any help understanding more about comfort zones you can read the book the Slight Edge by Jeff Olson and learn how to apply simple concepts into your life to get you to experiencing the Real Comfort Zone!
Or we can Mastermind together and help each other grow. Either way if you want to experience the success I have so far, then following a Proven Duplicatable system is important for your success. Having a Mentor and a Team will help you to reach the success YOU are after. Contact us anytime, We are here to help.
To Your Future!
Judith May
The How Doesn’t Matter until YOU Know the “WHY”
Why do you wish to get into Network Marketing?
Did You Know That Your Why is Your Road Map to Your Success?
You must learn how to drill down into the ‘core’ of your heart and uncover your WHY (Core Desire) for this is the switch to that unstoppable Conquering Force that resides within you.
We have a foolproof way for people to accurately identify their “WHY” . If you have a 60 on the Why (Core Desire) scale then you will get to 60% of your Goal. The day that there is an obstacle bigger than your Why (Core Desire) it will stop you as surely as a dam stops the water from flowing.
To discover your WHY (Core Desire), you must pay very close attention to your TRUE feelings that you experience as you ask yourself two basic questions.
The first question gets you started toward identifying your Why (Core Desire) and the first answer or two is rarely the real answer.
1: ‘What Would I Like to Have That I Don’t Currently Have?’
The Second Question Really Gives You Your Why (Core Desire):
2: ‘If I Had That, What Would That Give Me That I Don’t Already Have?’
Keep asking yourself that after each answer until you get to your Why (Core Desire). You will know when you discover your Core Desire because it is always accompanied by an intense, (sometimes emotional), reaction. You will know it when it happens. Whys (Core Desires) are the only reason people succeed at anything.
Master this, and you will live a life full of joy and satisfaction.
Please do this exercise for yourself and your family. You will see that not only will your business begin to grow, but so will your life. To learn more about how to participate with like minded people who will teach you more about how to become the person you need to be for others to follow, then participate in our 30 Day Cleanse that will help you to stop the chatter in your mind so that you can develop Your WHY.
You Deserve Success,
Judith May
(904) 291-2676 anytime.
From Failure to Success with Free Mentoring
She had tried all the scams that were out there. She had heard all the wild claims of how people made a million dollars in 6 seconds. That was not what she wanted.
She wanted to understand what she was really required to have for success without all the hype. What changes would she need to make in her own life that could help her increase her cash flow and get her out from under the debt load that was burying her.
Then one day her best friend sent her an eBook that changed her life. This eBook revealed so many secrets that this Mother discovered all the reasons she had failed in the past. In many cases she found out that it was NOT HER FAULT.
She had heard the many promises that had been made by those who sold her into the latest hot deal. She had been burned so many times. But this information made so much sense. It showed her what she had overlooked in her various attempts to earn an extra paycheck from home.
The eBook Changed Her Life
This Mother’s Husband had an extremely stressful job. He was stricken by the sun and stressed by the environment of putting in Gas stations and breathing the gasses wasn’t good for his health. He had no energy to play with his boy’s. However, this couple needed the money. What was she to do?
This Mother started applying the insights revealed in this eBook. In just a few months, she has more people to talk to and to share how they too can be earning an extra paycheck each week from their business from home.
This may just be the Answers YOU were Looking For
Instead of selling this information, this mother is wanting to get it in the hands of as many people as she can. It is her mission to help grant more people their Freedom, and Lifestyle they are looking for.
The Choice Is Yours
Understand, this is not about trying to sell you anything. It’s about helping you gain your freedom. It can be done in small baby steps or in larger steps. The choice is yours. You are in complete control. Do you want to continue to struggle or to get the training you need to have success like this Mother of two from Florida.
To Your Success
Judith May
904.291.2676 anytime
JudithMay@gmail.com
Ps. If you would like to meet this Mother of Two, email me so we can schedule some time together.
“Success Is Something You Attract By The Person You Become”
“Ten Simple Words,”
by Jim Rohn
My first mentor, Mr. Shoaff-over a five-year period of time before he died-taught me some extraordinarily simple things…Mr. Shoaff only went through the 9th grade. He never finished high school…never went to college…and never went to a university.
So he put his experiences and ideas into very simple language, which, I think for me-a farm boy from the state of Idaho-was so important.When I would say, “This is all the company pays.” Mr. Shoaff would say, “No, that is all they pay YOU.”
I thought, “That is a new to look at it.” I told him things cost too much. But he said, “No, you can’t afford them.” Well, that was a new concept for me. And he promised that if I would improve, then I would qualify for more money. So I learned that we don’t need to work on the company, we need to work on ourselves.
If his advice to me had been technical, I would have missed it. If it had been mystic, I would have backed away. But it was just basic, blunt “a-b-c” familiar stuff that I hadn’t thought of before. For me it was the beginning of what he called “personal development.”Mr. Shoaff also taught me that life puts some of the more valuable things on the high shelf so that you can’t get to them until you qualify.
If you want the things on the high shelf, you must stand on the books you read. With every book you read, you get to stand a little higher.Mr. Shoaff only needed to use ten simple words to forever shifted my thinking when he said,
“Success is something you attract by the person you become.”
That phrase changed my life. It’s true! Success is not to be pursued… Success is to be attracted by the person you become. Therefore, if you want to do something remarkable, put your energy into becoming a better you-the best you. Learn the skills.
Practice the skills. Apply the skills.
These simple strategies and ideas helped change my life, forever, for the better.
Thank you, once again, Mr. Shoaff.
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
P.S. If you’re ready to learn the skills, take action, and build a better tomorrow, here’s a good place to start.
